Every child needs support on their learning journey — especially when they’re juggling school, homework, activities, and emotions all at once. As grown-ups, we sometimes think, “They’ve got this!” And while that’s partly true, even confident kids do better when someone’s in their corner.
Here are a few ways you can help your child feel calm, confident, and ready to learn.
1. Make a Study Routine Together
- Kids do well with routines — they know what to expect and feel more in control.
- Plan Ahead: Look at what homework or tasks are coming up and make a simple schedule.
- Break it Down: Big jobs feel easier when they’re in small steps.
- Keep it Kind: If something doesn’t go to plan, it’s okay. Try again tomorrow.
2. Use Fun Ways to Learn
- Learning should be active and enjoyable — not just reading from a book.
- Teach You: Ask your child to explain something they learned today.
- Use Pictures: Draw mind maps, use flashcards, or colour-code notes.
- Try Practice Questions: These help children get used to the types of questions they’ll see.
3. Create a Calm Learning Space
- A tidy, quiet space helps children stay focused.
- Clear the Clutter: Set up a neat table with everything they need.
- Reduce Distractions: Turn off the TV and keep devices out of reach.
- Play Soft Music: Some gentle background music can help concentration.
4. Don’t Forget to Rest
- Rest is just as important as learning.
- Take Breaks: A short pause after 25 minutes of work keeps energy levels up.
- Move Around: A stretch, dance, or walk gives the brain a break.
- Sleep Well: A good night’s sleep helps children learn and feel better.
5. Talk about Feelings
- School can be exciting — but also a little stressful.
- Check in Often: Ask how they’re feeling about friends, schoolwork, or anything else.
- Breathe Together: Teach simple breathing exercises to calm the mind.
- Celebrate the Effort: Praise hard work, not just perfect results.
6. Make Learning Fun
- Learning can feel like a game.
- Play Quizzes: Turn study time into a mini quiz show.
- Use Apps: There are many learning games and tools online.
- Give Rewards: A fun treat or outing can be a great motivator.
7. Keep Life Balanced
- Kids need time to play, relax, and connect.
- Try New Things: Let them explore music, sport, or creative hobbies.
- Family Time Matters: Share meals, tell stories, and have fun together.
8. Be Their Support Team
- Children feel braver knowing someone’s always there to help.
- Study with Friends: Learning with others can make it more fun.
- Ask for Help: If something is tricky, don’t wait — teachers and tutors can help.
- Use what’s Out There: Many great resources are available online (see below).
Great Learning Websites to Explore
Here are some useful places you and your child can visit for extra help:
- thematric.co.za – Study tips and resources
- Past Papers Wiki – Practice papers for different subjects
- X-kit Achieve – Study guides and notes
- Studyladder – Worksheets for younger learners
- Mindset Learn – Videos for many school subjects
- Khan Academy – Free learning for all ages, especially maths and science
You don’t have to have all the answers — you just need to show up, cheer them on, and keep going together.
